Trusting Our Inner Advisor

Sometimes the world falls over itself to make sure you get the message that you should listen to the voice that gives you good ideas unbidden. Twice in the past 12 hours I have had a thought to do something and not pursued it only for some incoming communication to make it very clear that I should have.

The first was an impulse to contact someone I used to work with, they came to mind, I saw an opportunity to connect with them amd decided against it. That was yesterday evening. This morning I had two emails from them – this is someone from whom I haven’t received any communication for some time.

Then, this morning, I sat at my desk and it occurred to me to write a Blog, something I have kind of let go of since I got very busy at work. Then I decided I’d noodle around facebook instead. The first notification I had was of a message from someone saying they missed my Blog.

I’d have to be pretty stubborn, even by my own standards, to ignore these universal promptings.

And how could I not right about trusting that voice and about synchronicity?

Whether you call that voice your intuition, inspiration, instinct, higher mind, the Holy Spirit doesn’t matter, it’s the quiet voice that isn’t the result of the white knuckled thinking most of us indulge in, at least occasionally. If we get hing up on what the source of that voice is, or what to call it, our ego has succeeded in making us miss the point by the way.

As for the synchronistic element, that’s probably just a coincidence.

 

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