If there is any area in your life that is not working, by which I mean it is not a source of happiness and fulfilment, the bald truth is that you need to change. If "her indoors" (or him indoors) is looking less and less attractive as a life option you have the power to change that, not by trying to change them (which I'm sure many of you have tried) but by learning about yourself and changing.
Challenging though that sounds, it is a really empowering principle and those who accept it and work with it are much more likely to resolve their difficulties and move foward in their lives.
But these principles don't just apply to our partners or lack of partners, they apply to all of our relationships and to every aspect of our lives, if you are blocked or stuck in any area of your life, you can change that.
Some people prefer to work privately, especially at first, since many of the issues raised are highly personal and it can take time to develop the trust necessary to face some of what we have to face in ourselves. On top of this, many of my clients have attended my seminars and either for reasons of convenience or because they want to deal with a specific issue right now they will occassionally elect for a private coaching session where individual attention is, of course, assured.
In the seminar room we get the opportunity to learn from others and benefit from realising we are not alone, there are others who share our experince or something very like it. In addition to that, the seminars can be great fun, combining tenderness, laughter and community. Most people's experience of these seminars are that they deal with issues in their lives, they learn about themselves and others and they have a bloody good time.